October 23 1965

Money doesn’t buy happiness

In addition to being madly in love with Arlene, Mickey is so supportive of her career aspirations. He encourages her to choose a nursing specialty that is based on what will make her happy, not based on earning potential.

The part that really struck me is when he talks about money. And how it doesn’t automatically make you happy; happiness has to come from within. I’ve learned that Mickey was never this career-driven, “go-gettery” type of guy. Yes, he always wanted to be gainfully employed but surging up the corporate ladder was never one of his goals. I think not having this kind of aspiration could be misconstrued as being lazy or lacking ambition. But when you know who you love and how much that person means to you, there is no tangible value that can be assigned.

Life is to be measured in smiles and laughter, embraces and comfort.

Just a typical letter.